There are not only a lot of ways to connect with a Chinese woman through dating before marriage, but also some very important features to look out for, and to avoid. This is not only true for dating Chinese girls in your own country, but especially if and when you go to China.
For starters, if you’re going to attempt to connect with Chinese women online, especially before you visit the country, then a great place to start is absolutely not only Facebook, but also downloading and familiarize yourself with QQ Messenger. This messenger is very popular in China, and is the equivalent to Facebook Messenger for you.
In reality – unfortunately -most dating apps like Tinder and the likes will more than likely bring you to your knees in bad dates, one-night hookups, or otherwise unruly, or unusual Chinese women that are not likely to be marriage material.
Often, as you’ll find with dating and meeting women online while traveling abroad, sometimes when they’re bored with their current boyfriend or husband, they will use apps like this to flirt with other guys, get attention, or their ‘kicks’ in – at your cost.
So, when possible, avoid such Apps like the plague – if you’re serious about dating, and potentially marrying a sincere Chinese woman. This of course, is not to say that it wouldn’t be a pleasant way to make new friends, but rather, to use great discretion and apply common sense.
English Apps and Chinese Classes
If you want to try a new, unique approach, then consider installing an English-teacher App popular in China, or nearby Asian countries that are likely to have Chinese users and teachers.
Also, look for Chinese-English learning or teaching Apps, as these are a great place to not only meet new people and make new friends but, also a great opportunity to possibly “trade” your English for learning Chinese – for free!
Who knows? The chances that you’ll meet a nice, intelligent, educated, and loyal Chinese woman this way are actually pretty good. An example or two of Apps like this could be Palfish, or Nice Talk.
But, if you really want to maximize your exposure and preparation to speak Chinese before traveling there, consider local classes. So, whether you join an English or ESL club, or decide to take local Chinese classes, chances are you’ll expose yourself to this specific community, and while tight-knit, it is possible that you could find a nice, local Chinese girl this way too.
If not anything, you’ll be all the more enlightened culturally, and verbally prepared to take on your next China adventure!
Starting the Journey: Traveling to China
Once you’ve arrived in China, whether you’ve met a girl or local Chinese woman online, getting started and finding your other half could be as easy as walking out and about to local tourist spots and cafes – or clubs if that’s your thing.
One very important thing to keep in mind is that, understandably, China is huge. Therefore, don’t just limit yourself to one major city. And, if and when the time comes that you begin to speak Chinese fluently, traveling outside of some of the major cities can also both increase both your appeal and opportunity to meet the Chinese woman of your dream.
A common complaint and challenge that foreigners seem to have in meeting Chinese women are that in the main cities, they have already met foreigners before, have their own foreigner friends, and more than likely don’t have the biggest interest in meeting new ones.
In other words, while they remain extremely exotic to you, for instance, traveling to China you might discover that the feeling is – regrettably – not necessarily mutual. But, have no fear, as there are alternative solutions and multiple good reasons to date women outside of the “mainland”.
It might come as a surprise, but, there are plenty of non-mainlander Chinese women that would be equally interested in meeting you, dating, bonding, and possibly marrying a foreign man.
And, make no mistake, while they might not be comparably well off economically, it doesn’t necessarily mean they won’t speak any English, or not have a desire to learn with and from you.
In a lot of ways, depending on your preference, you might actually find that – although lower in “status” or class – women outside of these mainland cities are actually interested in more than your wallet, using you as a way to “see the world”, or otherwise being “gold-diggers”.
Dating Chinese Women: What Make Sense
Ultimately, if you’re looking to get the most out of dating Chinese women, then try to seek ones that are not only likely to meet your expectations and similar interests, but, also like the real you.
If possible – regardless of your age – consider enrolling in a local college course or two (considerably affordable) to not only meet new, educated, and beautiful single Chinese women, but also make new friends. You’re never too old to expand on your wisdom, knowledge, or education – and don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise.
If not anything, just enroll in a Chinese cultural-related (History) course, or Chinese speaking class that will be basic and simple enough to pick up on a little, while practicing Chinese in the meantime.
This is another great way to not only find interesting and single Chinese women, but also garner you the sort of attention you’re looking for, from ideal, educated, and ambitious women that would make a great potential wife.
Lastly, while no doubt going to foreigner hot-spots, bars, and the likes is sure to easily make you foreigner friends, the truth is there are much better ways to find the Chinese woman of your dreams.
Remember, just like traveling to anywhere else with a foreign language, surrounding yourself with foreigner friends, and speaking English all the time is more than likely not going to help you learn the local language any better – and will limit you to the types of people that you’ll meet.
So, while it’s no doubt going to be a little hard to get started, the truth is “throwing yourself in there”, and really trying to understand and integrate into the local community is the best way to find yourself an honest, sincere, and beautiful single Chinese woman to marry.